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Positive Self Talk: Re-Program Your Mind

Affirmations are essentially positive statements that re-program your mind for the positive. This positive self-talk is easier to implement than you might think. The moment you have a self-defeating thought, counter the negative with a motivating statement. An example of a positive affirmation is: “I am worthy of great success,” or “I see myself in the winner’s circle.” What this does is replace negativity with thoughts that will help you move toward your goals instead of further away from them.

You may not be aware of the severity of the negative dialogue currently within your mind. However, once you begin with positive self-talk, you will suddenly realize that you are self-sabotaging the goals you set for yourself from the minute that you make them. This process can make you aware of exactly how much that inner conversation has been interfering with your life. You’ll start believing that you can now set goals and surpass them.

Through positive self-talk you will be able easily set long and short-term goals for yourself. And when you use affirmations, you’ll have those tools accessible to help you push yourself further than ever before. Learning to quiet negativity and re-program your mind with positive thoughts is a great move toward setting and attaining future goals with ease.

Positive Self Talk: Sticking to Your Goals

Do you feel like you are always talking yourself out of success? As soon as you start to set goals for yourself, do you suddenly have nagging thoughts about how you aren’t up to the task or how you simply aren’t qualified to carry it through?

If you have ever experienced either situation, you need to change the way you respond to your inner dialogue. Instead of obeying your negative commands, you can use positive self-talk to counter the negativity and overcome nearly all anxious thoughts.

Are you initially filled with excitement when you first set goals for yourself? Are these thoughts then followed by self-doubt and self-defeating thoughts that stop you in your tracks before you even get started?

It can be difficult to make the most of your life when you are constantly talking yourself out of being a success. It can be frustrating and discouraging to have these thoughts constantly plaguing you. Many of us, in fact, don’t even realize we have them! All we know is that we don’t have the confidence to stick to our plans and reach our goals.

But there’s another way!

Positive self-talk is an effective way to set goals and ensure that you stick to them, even if you have never been able to do this before. The way this works is that you decide what goal is important to you, and then you plan the logistics of how you are going to attain this goal. When self-doubt starts kicking in, you will respond with affirmations that prove your success without surrendering to the negative pressure. Since you’re reading this article, it’s clear that you’re no quitter and you’re certainly not a failure, so start believing in yourself!

Five Mood Foods

fiveforfriday Have you heard the saying, “We are what we eat?” It’s true enough. But, we also change how we feel according to what we eat. Here are some examples of five foods that can alter our moods—for the better.

Eating comfort foods makes us feel better. Our brain releases endorphins as we enjoy every satisfying bite. Did you know that? Food makes us feel good. Some foods make us feel better than others but here they are.

1. Tea – Drinking tea does wonders for the body. The caffeine in tea has been linked to improvements in mood. Caffeine increases alertness and our ability to function well. Many people rely on caffeine each day in some form to wake up and get the body moving. The rush we feel motivates us to get going with our daily tasks. Tea is healthier than drinking soda. There are many kinds of tea. Green tea provides antioxidants to the body. Antioxidants prevent disease and slow the aging process.

2. Chocolate – Women always knew they were right. This is not just any chocolate though. Dark chocolate contains the largest percentage of pure cocoa. It works to increase our mood. Serotonin levels rise and so do the happy feelings. People who ate chocolate on a consistent basis noticed they had more energy as well as a better outlook on life. Besides that, the calories obtained from this chocolate don’t outweigh the benefits of eating dark chocolate. The rest of the diet can be adjusted to account for it.

3. Salmon – This cold water fish contains vitamin D as well as omega-3 fatty acids. Vitamin D is synthesized by skin cells after exposure to the sun. When the sun is not as forthcoming like in the winter months, we have to obtain it from other sources. The canned variety of salmon and fortified milk along with some vegetables provides vitamin D to our bodies along with supplements. Vitamin D increases serotonin which has to do with mood.

4. Walnuts – Most tree nuts are good for you. They contain nutrients vital to health and healthy fats. Walnuts contain omega-3 fatty acids just like salmon.

5. Lentils – Lentils are part of the legume and bean family. They provide protein for the body to build muscle. Lentils release a lot of fiber when we eat them. Insoluble fiber carries a measure of fat from the food we eat out of the body as it passes through the digestive system. Folate is a component of lentils and it deals with brain activity and health.

Are you looking for something good to eat? These five foods are good for you and good to you. Using them as a component of a healthy diet boosts mood and health.

Beauty Secret: Self-Care Equals Stress Relief

How well are you taking care of yourself? What is self-care? Self-care means getting enough relaxation, staying fit, maintaining a healthy diet, having fun doing activities you enjoy and spending time with family and friends. When you take good care of yourself you feel good, look better, enjoy life and are able to tackle everyday stresses.

Self-care is not selfish, as some people may believe. In fact, if you take good care of yourself are able to take care of others much more easily. Some people find taking care of themselves difficult and believe they are being self- indulgent. Always putting others first will take its toll on your health; will lower your self-esteem and damage relationships. Here are some self-care tips.

1. Have something pleasurable planned for yourself every day. Make time for relaxing activities. Take time to spend with yourself, reading, mediating, taking a walk in nature, getting a massage or whatever pleases you.

2. Don’t get involved with trying to solve other peoples’ problems. Be supportive and listen but don’t overburden yourself.

3. Take time to cultivate relationships. Studies show that having friends and a social network helps reduce stress. Friends offer us opportunities to talk about our feelings and they provide us with feedback.

4. Take care of your health by eating foods that are good for you. A balanced diet can lift your mood, give you more energy, prevent illness and will help you feel better to cope with life’s stresses.

5. Take time for hobbies and activities. Make a list of hobbies and activities you enjoy. It might be dancing, taking your dog for a walk, playing a sport, inviting friends over for dinner, hiking etc. Set time aside to do the activities you enjoy most. You will feel better because of it and so will those around you.

6. Keep fit. Regular exercise improves the efficiency of the heart, maintains good blood circulation and lowers blood pressure. During exercise the body releases hormones, which are natural anti-depressants. Regular exercise acts as a ‘time out’ and gives your mind a break.

7. Avoid tobacco, drugs and alcohol. Alcohol and drugs give a temporary relief from stress but will decrease the body’s ability to withstand stress and will cause long-term damage to the body.

© Copyright 2005 Sheila Dicks

(NOTE: This article has been reprinted from http://www.ArticleFeedster.com with permission.)

Exercise – A Natural Insomnia Cure

We all know that exercise that can help you lose weight and get more energy, but what about helping you sleep?  Studies have shown that people, particularly women, who regularly exercise during the day, enjoy better sleep and sleep longer.  Before you reach for the sleeping pills why not try going for a run, taking a trip to the gym, or signing up for a yoga or pilates class?

Many people have trouble sleeping because they are overly stressed.  The worst part about this is that sleep deprivation can increase your cortisol levels, which makes you feel more stressed.  Cortisol is one of the hormones that is responsible for our flight or fight response to stress.  If the levels are not lowered then it can also make you irritable and less able to deal with stressful situations.  This is why most insomniacs have increased levels of stress hormones.  While exercise makes these hormones rise initially, after several hours the levels fall.  These hormone levels actually become lower than before you exercised and lower than they would be if you hadn’t worked out at all.  Regular exercise can end the vicious sleep-stress cycle once and for all.

Most insomniacs simply can’t clear their mind of their problems when they lay down to bed.  The stresses of the day run repeatedly through their minds instead of relaxing.  Exercise can be a time to escape the stressors around you and figure out solutions to your problems.  If you figured out what to do about your latest work crisis during your morning run, you don’t have to stress over it at bedtime.  This leaves your brain free to sleep.

Exercising also makes you need sleep more.  The more you work your muscles, the more they need to regenerate through sleep.  While you may think this is just going to make you more tired when you can’t sleep, it will actually help you have a deeper, more restful sleep.  Even if you can’t sleep more, you’ll sleep better and be more rested and energized in the morning.

An important part of using exercise to cure insomnia is timing.  As I already mentioned, exercise produces chemicals in your brain that make you feel more awake and energized.  This is why it’s not a good idea to exercise before bedtime.  But how close is too close?  It is generally recommended that you exercise more than four hours before you sleep; however, you may find you need a longer rest period.  If you find you’re not sleepy, start pushing your exercise earlier gradually till you find a good time.  Obviously, the best time to exercise is in the morning, and this will make you feel more energized all day long.  It will also help you to focus on all that needs to be done during the day.  Once you have set that routine it will help ease your mind in the evening.

If you absolutely can’t exercise during the day, there are things you can do at night instead (or in addition) to help you get to sleep.  Studies have shown that exercises as simple as stretching can help improve insomnia symptoms.  You can try doing stretches or yoga closer to bedtime to help you relax.  You can find books or join a class to learn specific positions and more to promote relaxation and sleep.  Definitely stay away from the computer and tv.  The bright lights will stimulate your brain and make it even harder to go to sleep.

While exercise helps you sleep more, it has other wonderful benefits.  Exercise helps you lose weight, feel great, and have more energy during the day (and so will sleep).  Before you try supplements, pills, or other crazy sleep solutions, try working out first.  It will cure your insomnia along with some great positive side effects.  And the best part of all is, it’s free!

Val Selby
Personal Trainer
Mom’s Online Retreat Wellness Coordinator
www.BusyMommaWellness.com

Candle Aromatherapy for Concentration

We all know the benefits of aromatherapy for rest and relaxation. It seems like there are tons of scents you can choose from if you want to unwind at the end of a long, hectic day. Aromatherapy works quickly and effectively because, unlike other senses, scent is directly connected to your brain. You already know aromatherapy works great to relax, why not try it when you need to concentrate? Aromatherapy can be used to turn your brain back on, perk you up, and sharpen your thought process. Imagine the work you can get done with that extra invigorating boost. I know this won’t be a surprise to you, or you didn’t really believe that it relaxed you. lol

When it comes to concentration, there are many scents to choose from. There are minty, fruity, and fresh smelling varieties. This means that you’ll be sure to find one you actually think smells good. Stick to the outdoor type scents and you will hit it. Fresh smelling, awakening scents are the way to awaken the scents. Here are just some of the options available:

* Lemon
* Mango- this can also help to improve concentration by easing symptoms of depression.
* Pine- this helps to increase energy levels as well as concentration.
* Apple- this can also give you an extra energy boost.
* Rosemary-this scent promotes relaxation and alertness at the same time.
* Peppermint- this has always been recommended to me to improve alertness for long study sessions
* Eucalyptus- this can be used to provide a slightly different scent.

If you want to use aromatherapy to help you concentrate, there are several options for helping the scent reach your nose.

* Aromatherapy candles. These are an easy and simple way to help spread your favorite invigorating scents throughout the house. They are slightly less concentrated, but they still get the job done. Just buy the scents you want and light them whenever you’re studying or just need a mental boost. Soy candles are so much better for our environment, so please check out our candle facts about burning them. Our candles are 100% soy and come in many scents. If your scent isn’t available, then please email us.
* Humidifier. Simply find the oil form of the fragrance you want, put a few drops in your room humidifier and let it work. As the water gets put into the air, the oil gets taken with. When the droplets evaporate, the room is filled with your favorite refreshing sent. They also make devices now that use water to disperse scent and clean your air at the same time. Please make sure that it is not a scent you are allergic to first.
* Rub on oil. Instead of using the oil in your humidifier, just rub it onto your chest or under your nose. It works like VapoRub by sending invigorating vapors right up to your nose. Just be careful, many of the oils can be harmful, so you’ll have to mix a few drops with a carrier oil so you don’t hurt your skin. A carrier oil can be baby oil or mineral oil. Just something to mix with.

If you want to study, concentrate more on work, or just feel energized and alert at the end of a long day, you should try one of these fantastic aromatherapy scents. It is a great way to work more in without caffeine. But make sure that you are not messing with your normal sleep patterns. We need to set normal sleep and awake patterns to be more productive.

Val Selby

Mom’s Online Retreat Coordinator

www.BusyMommaWellness.com

Body Image

Where is it that we get our personal body image?  The media, comments made by others, or just our own bad attitudes?  I’m not sure if we can find just one answer.  I just know that we as women are very hard on ourselves.

There is no one in the world that wouldn’t like to change at least one thing about their bodies.  That is because we are all unique, but yet we compare ourselves to others.  When was the last time you took a compliment with a polite thank you and left it at that?  How many of us will say thank you and then make a degrading comment about another body part of ours?

It is time to stand up and be proud of ourselves.  Accentuate your best assets and be happy with what you have.  So you may have stretch marks?  Glow with the fact that you had beautiful babies because of it.  You have saggy skin?  Hmm, could it be from the wonderful job you have been doing with your weight loss?

Really analyze yourself when you make degrading comments to yourself.  Whether it is outloud or in your own head.  Figure out why you feel that way.  Maybe it’s just someone else’s baggage you are bringing into your life.

Here is a great article to read about women’s locker rooms.